The Astrological Ballad of Pam Anderson & Tommy Lee

Revisiting the marriage of Pamela Anderson (CANCER) and Tommy Lee (LIBRA), it’s nice to find two celebrities who don?t have the typical celebrity relationship, where one is a mirror image of the another.

That type of connection seldom lasts. These two have real, old-fashioned push-me/pull-you chemistry, the kind that all the books and movies love to base romance around. Let?s look at this relationship:

There is great chemistry here, although the roles are reversed.

Traditionally, the man is the caregiver and the woman is the loved one or love object. Here, Pamela Anderson takes the role of the lover, the caregiver, the one who dotes on — in this case Tommy Lee, who is the love object.

Of the two, Anderson is much more in need of a partner than Tommy, whose chart patterns make him essentially more independent than Pam. However, Tommy?s independence is not very strong so there is no reason why he could not happily assume the role of the loved one in this relationship. After all, he loves attention, and Pamela loves to give it.

When we look at their inner and outer chart patterns — with Tommy, what you see is what you get; that is, as you get to know him, nothing changes. He is the same through and through. With Pam, this is not the case. She looks, as ?Borat? portrayed, like an archetypical “loved object,” and she has made her career with that image.

Pamela is very different once you get to know her. She is very sensitive, for one (touchy might be a better word). She thinks a lot, and all that thinking easily turns to worry. At heart, she is much more insecure an individual than you would guess from looking at her appearance. It is this tendency to worry and care too much that makes her the great caregiver she can be and a good match for Tommy — someone we can all agree could use some looking after. Pam can do just that, and she loves that role; she loves to care for him.

So it’s anyone?s guess why these two are not together, since they have natural chemistry — the kind that time and circumstance can never wear out. There is no astrological reason why they could not get back together and enjoy one another again for a long time.

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