Dean McDermott Talks Money Woes, Family & New Cookbook

Dean McDermott Talks Money Woes, Family & New Cookbook

Dean McDermott talks about his family’s finances and sets the record straight on his thoughts about getting a vasectomy. And when it comes to his wife, Tori Spelling, Dean reveals that they “are happy and in love.” The father of four also talks about making his cooking dreams a reality with his new book slated for next year, “The Gourmet Dad.”

good looking family right there. Tori deen and her children. Steve is with us right now. You have a book coming out. Gourmet wife. Your back is out telling it like it is. Deen let's jump that it. Page 2 91. Can we go there tori is very candid in here. She which is all of us. She's very up front about her lavish lifestyle and the way she likes to spend and live big and business manager comes to you guys and says we have to slow down. Comes to her probably right. Yes. You too. Yes. Yes. I like to so when you are successful and you get a little tl you go a little crazy. You learn. We. That's funny because you come from that side. She comes from spelling man or and aaron and tons of money and that money got cut off. Now she's trying to -- she talk about trying to chase the lifestyle and keep the lifestyle and it's just a waste of time. Well we are not trying to chase that lifestyle because that is rare.That is rare. What mr. Spelling did with the manor and what not. We are just creating a loving environment for our kids to grow up in. You know. That's what we are chasing. We want them to have a nasty house. Want them to have a good education and that's like I said that's really what we are chasing. So how are the finances now? Because according to tori, a little bit more dire straits. Well, we are human, right. And life has up and down and sometimes your bank account is flush and sometimes it's not. And you know it happens. Life happens. But the thing is we get through it together. As a husband and wife as a family and, you know, we'll come out the other end. Deen when I hear this I said if things got bad, couldn't you just call candy? Part of the spelling. You are not going to be on the street. You got, the grandparents the grandmother has a fortune. Isn't it always a back up. No. You know because we work really hard for everything that we have and it's candy's money. You captain dictate to someone how they should spend it. So we always, we always do for ourselves. A gift? She gives gifts. Send a big check. Keep it in the family. In here she talks about it has goten so bad that our money manager involved in every decision we make. Deen was thinking about getting a vasectomy the idea freaked me out but we have 4 kids. You want more. And then you go in and you guy have a meeting with the urologist and you find out this it's going to cost a lot. She wanted you to get reversible vasectomy. That's why I wept to this particular doctor because he's the best at the reversal. So he doesn't take insurance. The estimate was pretty high and told the business manager. He said that's a lot. That's a lot. So I didn't pursue it. Not like we couldn't afford a vasectomy. I just didn't pursue it. What's reversible thing. You get it done and then if you decide you want to have kids down the line they will reverse it. You don't need reversible do you. Cheaper for the regular. I can solve this problem rate now. No. If I was going to get a vasectomy I would of course -- if we wanted another kid it's there. Final one is probably the good movement you have the last pregnancy. Tori she almost died. Yes, it was very difficult. I know tori doesn't lake the idea of vasectomy because it's so final. It's like really closing a chapter on having more kids. I get it. But I don't think we would have more. Especially what she went through with our last. She spent two months in the hospital. She almost died. Yes. She could have had a severe bleed. We could have lost the baby and her so -- physically it took a lot out of her.4 kids in 6 years. That's tough on a body. You are not afraid of getting a vasectomy are you. No not at all not at all. Do you have anyone to talk to on this front. Do you weren't to talk bit. You want to talk. Hook me up. Find a good guy that is through it before and talk to them. It's not. He volunteer. He did it it's great. I have done it it's absolutely the greatest gift in the world because there's no fear, deen. No fear. You are not a man with if you are kids that needs to be wearing a condom let's just be honest. Yes. No I don't need that. 5 kids. 5 kids. That's right. You have one from the previous marriage. Jack is 15 and 6 foot 4. He's giant. Let's in the be talking to him about condom. Him yes. You no the. Deen are you all happy? You and tori have been through so much. We are incredibly happy. You know, our relationship sounds hochy and if you believe it or not and every day we make up more in love with each other our relationship gets stronger and stronger and when we needed a versus ty we work through it together and our relationship gets even stronger. So we are happy. We are in love. Look just so in love with that girl. She's so beautiful. Any hesitation to marry in the spelling family. I would think as a man, slight part of the identity is lost when you marry that a family like that. I never thought of it at the time. Or making my ego big enough that I thought no. Won't affect me. And you know it hasn't. It hasn't. I haven't lost who I am. In this whole mix. In fact I think it made me a better, stronger person. Last we chatted we were in the kitchen, I believe. Deen we were talking about maybe a restaurant. Maybe cooking school. Do you still have a dream. Yes still a dream. The cook book has become a reality. That's going to be coming out in june of 2014. Gourmet dad with family fun and I'm thrilled. The photogthrilled. The photography looks amazing. The publisher are really liking the book so I captain wait for to it kilometer out. Really super excited. You need to make food fun for kid. We have created what is adult food and kid food. I can't stand that. Though. They shouldn't be that way. We ate the same thing. I break that barrier. I am concerned. Let's agree that in, within 6 months the vasectomy will be done. Do we think that could work. Absolutely. That's an agreement. You heard it here. I'm telling you greatest thing you will ever do it's