Spring Fling Dating Tips
Spring Fling Dating Tips
Flirtation expert Rachel DeAlto shares Spring Fling dating tips with Billy Bush and Kit Hoover on Access Hollywood Live. What tips does Rachel have for spicing up dates with your spouse? Rachel’s book, “Flirt Fearlessly,” is available now.
Here with spring fling dating tips for everyone. All right. Let's start with the married folks here. What tips do we need to spice up the dates with the spouse? Get back into that because you get complacent. Start from the beginning. I say to everybody, recreate the first date. So wherever your first date was, it could be a fast food drive through or a nice dinner, wherever that was, recreate it from start to finish. What if it wasn't a great date? It's more fun because you love each other and married and -- Where was your first? A bar in Chicago. I was ten feet -- no. I'm kidding. Where you met him. The first date? Where did he take you? The rooster, a little restaurant. It was a lot of money and it was expensive. I ordered an appetizer. You could order a full meal. That's cute. How many times a week or a month do you need date night? It depends on the schedules. I don't want to say to everybody if you're not doing it once a week you are missing out or something's going wrong. It is really what works for you. I say at least twice a month is pretty reasonable for people really reasonable. Dating? Dating your spouse. Going out with your spouse. Getting babysitters. That sounds right. Your first date with Sydney? We went to a restaurant in Virginia except for I didn't make a plan. She's a southern woman and said, where are we going? I said there's a Mexican place down there, a that, a this. She said, have an idea or a plan where you were going to take me. I was like, whoa. I've had a plan ever since. Makeout a lot. People stop kissing. It is true! People stop kissing in a relationship and when you first meet someone, that's how you explore each other and get back into it. Start kissing again. I love to makeout. Be spontaneous. Be spontaneous. Do something on a whim. Go somewhere. You know? Make a date or a weekend trip at the last minute. Go even out for eat at the last minute. Anything to get that excitement up and the endorphins can make a change. We have a lot of work to do. Love that. Pda and kids. Good stuff, right? They should see the affection. They have to see the affection and what a healthy relationship looks like so I encourage pda to an extent with children in the space around you. So, kissing. Kissing is my next point there because kissing is such a beautiful thing with two people that love each other and why you're kissing. I'm kissing mommy because I love her and want the show you what love looks like. Love that. Daytime television. This is the how far you can go in terms of pda in front of your children. So keep it daytime. No prime time. Oh! I was watching "Full house" and uncle Jesse making out all over the place. There was a character named Sylvester stabone. Yes. They called him -- Yes. Rhymes with loner. Single parent dating tips. Yes. I say every single parent should be online. You have so many other restrictions on your line. Were you honest up front? Three kids, my program, this age. You don't have to spill all of the beans at once but the notes. I'm a parent. The right person will accept it. The wrong person will move on. I think if I'm single dating I would so pick a picture from ten years -- No! I don't always look like this but sometimes I do. Blended families, what are the dating tips for that? It starts with making sure you're not introducing everybody too quickly. The problem is you already have -- coming from a quote/unquote broken family. I don't love the term but moving back to someone has to be handled carefully. Give it six months. Exclusive relationship and then start to introduce them to your partner but not the other kids yet. Because you have to really kind of integrate one by one to make sure that everybody is comfortable. It's a psyche of a child is so important to maintain and really essential to kind of baby step it. All right. Remember interviewing Angelina Jolie before she met brad Pitt. She goes, no, no, no. I take a lover and I lost my breath. She said, I take a lover. We meet at a hotel. A friend with benefits. A few hours. Go back. I said -- oh my -- I couldn't believe it. Good job, Rachel. Good job. For more information on Rachel, go to okay sszhollywoodlive.com. Right back with the