Summer Dating Tips For Those Starting Over
Summer Dating Tips For Those Starting Over
Rachel DeAlto sits down with Access Hollywood Live’s Billy Bush and guest co-host Brooke Burns to share her summer dating tips for those starting over. How should you deal with your ex? Plus, what should you keep in mind about hooking up at weddings?
action. I am. Absolutely let's do it. All right now. Communication relationship expert Rachel joins us with the summer dating tips for those starting over. This is. Oh, good. Let's begin with the ex okay. The ex etiquette. The first thing is never text them after you break up. You have to make a clean break so I suggest having a 30 day block out. It's very easy to fall back in old pattern. What if you have kids. Ex-husband. You have to -- You can still communicate forth sake of the children with you in terms of being flirty or in any way trying to rekindle something you have to give yourself that time apart. Boundary. Absolutely. If you love something set it 43 if it comes back. Many people hit a bump in the dating they split get back together married live a is in life. Happens all the time. Depends on why they broke up in the first place. Circumstances or was it an issue so really don't put on the rose colored glasses a to what the relationship was like. Think about it in the reality aspect and if that work and work through the issues then maybe it can work out in the long run. Be careful. If you have been with someone for a long time. They are your best friend and talking to them every day every day every day then the phone stops. That's why the 30 day block out is so important because it's a habit. 21 day to brick a has been tonight anything. I have an extra 9 in there just for fun. The strength training. To make sure that it thrill does break because it becomes a has been to it talk every day. Has been to it make friends with them. Habit to did all the things that you normally do. You have to break it off. What about social media things right away unfriend them. Yes. Unfollow. You have to roof them them from your peripheral vision and your direct vision because otherwise. Break the habit. Yes. Break the habit. Constantly being remind. Seeing what they are dochlingt you get the feelings that maybe after couple cocktail issued text them. Doesn't work. I'm so glad I'm married. What about wedding hook up. When I got married I was 26 years old. We were the first ones out of our all of our friends to get married so imagine all the grooms men were single. All the bridesmaid were single. The bar was open. Had you a fun wedding. Everybody was hooking up all over the place. My wife and I are still proud of this today. Any couple still together. Did they stay together. For the night I think. I don't know about -- plus one do you bring a date. Why out wow! Do that. If you are going to a friend's wedding you know there are a lot of possibilities out there, don't bring a date. That is into the boyfriend or girlfriend. I understand it's quick. Don't fall in love with love. You are at a wedding. Love is great thinks amazing. Love in the air. Rainbow version of what it should be like. Keep it in reality. Realize what you are there for. I love about meeting at a wedding you are meeting friend of a friend at least there is someone that knows this person is not a serial killer. That's right. Apparently felon are really appealing rate now. Exactly. Totally true. Really is in blue eyes. Blue eye and great lips. Invite them to your wedding never know he could get lucky. Be very, very practical about the situation. Understand that yes but likelihood of something really substantial coming occupy it. Fun fling. Enjoy the. Ask Billy. How long into the relationship should all the red flagred flags be a non-issue. 6 to 12 months is what I see but there are some people that say 24 most. That's something to be said not jumping in something. Don't run in a relationship run off and get married. This is why our divorce rate is so high. We have no foundation and in that first 6 to 12 months everybody looks amazing. None of the issues pop out. And we are all on the best behavior and all of a sudden they are married and. I foe that at 6 months was they con even make it 6 months with that behavior. I'm sorry. Faster than that I fig faster than that I figured out. Its it's better to come out fast. I know a couple guy you date I hope it's not -- Oh, that one. The oh, boy. Frightening. I did hear there are signs that you can even see more quickly than 6 months. Yes everybody puts their best foot forward certain flag right away run from this person. Absolutely. Communication issues. So not having a good communication between you and the person and they don't talk to me. That's a girl thing. Everything. I think I can make him be month nothing muchlts I don't want to be married or children you will do that for me. These are big things long-term become. They are deal breaker so the ththings need to be dress from the beginning and accept them. If. Men can't be changed but if it's the right person they will change. They will change on their own. Don't go in to change them. Your book flirt fearlessly in stores rate now Rachel and for more information on Rachel go to our web site. Still to come. Allergy free food swap. Keeping the flavor in your food. Coming up.